I try to keep everything even same amount of time and money spent for both. It can be hard to find something that each would like to do but it seem like they are just happy being alone with mommy or daddy and that just makes me so happy to see.
I try to do this at least once a month I explain to the one staying at home that it is his brothers turn to go out and I find something for the other to do here at home with the other parent such as baking or something they love to do.
Have you ever found it kinda hard to find one on one time for each child? I believe it to be very important for each child to get that 1on 1 time with both mommy and daddy even it mean just taking them to the store and out to lunch just the two of you.