Thursday, December 15, 2011

my caring cross review

My caring cross is a Beautiful cross made by hand out of olive wood in the great land of Bethlehem.

Here is a bit of back ground of how they got started 

"Issa is a Christian living on the outskirts of Bethlehem and has been carving crosses and religious items his whole life to support his wife and three children.  Twenty years ago my mother met Issa on a visit to Bethlehem and began importing his olive wood handicrafts. With the decline in Bethlehem tourism, Issa and other Christian Artisans are struggling.  Our aim is to support them by providing a market for olive wood crosses direct to Christians in America."

I am not one to carry a cross around with me but I did find it to fit nicely in the palm of my hand. It is such a beautiful cross and you can tell it was hand made and that for me just adds to the value seeing that someone put their heart into making this. The fact that is was made in the land that Jesus once walked and lived just makes you fell so much closer to him .

I highly recommend this cross to anyone for any occasion it would make a great wedding favor or welcome gift to a new member of a church etc the possibilities are endless.

I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.

Saturday, December 10, 2011

A helping hand to all my blogger friends

Sex toys - EdenFantasys adult toys store

I wanted to share something a friend once shared with me it's called the Eden loves bloggers program . eden fantasys was one of the first companies that gave me a chance as new blog /blogger . Working along side eden fantasys has been so much fun I receive a new product to review each month try them out and write my review on the item. Another great part about doing the reviews is that you have the freedom of doing things your way if you want to do a simple review or you can even make it into a erotica. I myself like to add a few tips on how you can use the product in different ways or scenarios. I have never felt pressured to do things a certain way I have always had fun working with Eden fantasys and I hope to be working with them for many more years.

Becoming a part of the blogger program at eden fantasys has been one of the best decisions I have ever made for so many reasons. Building my blog, building my sex toy collection and bettering my sex life are just a few of the ways this program has affected my life.

There isn't one thing I would change about this program my coordinator has been great about answering all of my questions and seeing that I get a new product each month to review . I hope that if you have a blog or are thinking about starting a blog you keep the Eden loves blogger program in mind I promise you won't regret it.

This product was provided to me free of charge by Eden Fantasys in exchange for an unbiased review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

Thursday, December 8, 2011

The Noblo umbrella buddy review

So when I received the noblo umbrella buddy I thought ok so it is just a cloth bag you fill with sand to weigh down your umbrella . So I started thinking what else can it be used for then I thought well it is a bag so why not use it to carry your things in to the beach like your towel, lotion, etc. ( things you take out anyway ) then fill the bag with sand and attach to your umbrella when the day is over empty the sand and put your things back in .

The only part I don't like about this product is the price I myself wouldn't pay $15 for a cloth bag . If it had more uses maybe but this one not so much.  

I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.

Saturday, December 3, 2011

kinky kristmas kit review

Having trouble thinking of something to get for your better half this holiday season ? Well have I got the gift for you the Kinky Kristmas Kit . This kit is a lite BDSM kit for when you want to be naughty or nice its made by the great minds of  Doc. Johnson . It includes a one-size-fits-most leatherette cuffs and blindfold for even the naughtiest of recipients. Tease or spank your mate with the mini rubber flogger and to spice it up even more with the 7" multi-speed vibrator and 1oz peppermint pleasures lubricant .

When first looking at this sex toy kit  I was worried about how thin the cuffs were that they might dig into my wrist but after trying them on and pulling a bit ( wink wink ) I found they didn't dig at all. The flogger was very fun to use both to tease and to spank. A things I would change is to make the blindfold a bit wider but other then that everything else is great . The vibrator is the perfect length and width for anal but was to hard for it to be used comfortably vaginally.   

But don't think that this is the only kit that eden fantasys has to offer they have 1000's of great sex toys to choose from .

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

3 cups review

Three cups is a  great book that teaches kids how to manage money in an enjoyable way. In this book a boy receives three cups and is told that one is for Saving , one for spending and one for giving with these cups he was also given an allowance.

This book is a great way of showing kids to be thankful for what they have and showing that it is better to earn what you have and not just expect it. Its also teaches kids to share with the less fortunate . I highly recommend this book to anyone who is wanting to teach there child how to be smart with money from a young age this lesson will follow them into adulthood and pass to their children.

 I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Omg I can not believe it is only 49 days away from Christmas where did the year go ? Even though it had been a great year i just feel I haven't gotten anything accomplished I had hoped to have all my hubby's img. paper work done and gone by now but we are only a few steps away from no more worries . I have been falling behind in so much now that I have a full time job but the money has helped so much and it made me feel better to take some of the stress off of my amazing husband.

This past few weeks I have been getting back on track it hasn't been easy but it is getting done Thank God . The way I have been doing it is just taking things one step at a time and that is not easy for a person like me I am a person who likes everything done at once and right the first time. Yea I know never happens but a girl can wish .

Well now i have to go clean , cook and do laundry fun fun fun

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Mixbook Custom 5x7 flat holiday cards- Review

When I was accepted to review these very cute holiday cards from Mixbook I was so excited. Mixbook offers a great verity of all different kinds of beautiful cards to choose from for all occasions.

I decided on the snowy script what I liked most about it is you can move a few things around like on mine I spread out the snow flakes a bit so that they weren't all on one side. I chose my picture and fitted it everything thing was easy to do. The only problem I had was choosing from all the many many beautiful card settings .  Don't forget to follow Mixbook on facebook and Twitter.



I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.

Roots Only- Review

Roots only is a great inventions that makes touching up your roots as easy as 1-2-3. No more having to go to the salon and spend all your hard earned money on a few touch ups when you could do  a great job at home with this one simple tool.

I used this to get down to my roots wile coloring my hair and I have to say it did get the color deep down to the roots and helps my color to look more natural . The only problem I had with this product was wile cleaning it the color got stuck in the corners of this top I had to leave water in it and shake it hard in order to get it all out.

I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.

Thursday, October 27, 2011

guest post - Book Club

Thanks for the article from Laura Ryan

Once a month a group of us in my neighborhood get together for book club. Each month the hostess picks a book for the group to read and has everyone over to her house to discuss the book. To help out, I always take a dish to share. I like to make something different each time, something everyone might not normally try. No chips and salsa, no chicken wings—I like to make something a little more gourmet. After several years it was getting hard to impress everyone so one day I turned on my Arizona Directv and switched the channel to the Food Network. From quick and easy to an afternoon of baking, I can always find something new and different that works for my schedule. Not only do I get the recipes but I can also see the food being prepared as well as the finished dish. Occasionally there have been some missteps but it’s no problem—I always have a back-up plan in mind! In fact, I’ve found so many new recipes I want to try out on everyone, I usually have several!

Monday, October 24, 2011

360 degree swivel massager - Review

It does give of a strong vibration but on the smooth end it doesn't seem like direct enough contact but on the nubbed side ( my fave )  it feels like it hits the spot a lot better. This is a good massager  for those who like to switch it up a little with out having to switch toys. Another cool part that  I like about the 360 is the fact that it can be used in many different positions and will stay the way you want it.

When I received this strange looking toy from the great people at I thought cool a 2n1 toy and that is exactly what it is. On one side it is a smooth rounded surface and the other is nubbed and both are made with a firm plastic that can be set on the low or high setting.

360 degree swivel personal massager - Massager 
Eden Fantasys offers a great verity of sex toys  for all of your wants and needs. Don't forget to become a member of their points program and earn points to turn into a gift card  to pay for the products you want.

Friday, October 21, 2011

I have Blue Legs

I got a new pair of jeans and they have turned my legs blue my kids asked what happened and I said I was an alien. My oldest kept saying " no your not mommy are you" I took a shower and when I came out they kept looking at my legs asking " what happen to alien  mommy " I said she went back to space. 

I must say I do have some crazy kids but I guess they do get it honestly from there dad LOL ( ok maybe a small bit from me )

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Sticker you review

Sticker you is a fun and easy way to create your own stickers. You can use any of their many designs or you can even upload your own image you don't have to worry about fitting your image in to a specific size or shape they offer a freedom die cut sticker printing that mean that they cut to form not form to cut.  That also means you can make any thing into a sticker.

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and visit their web site

I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.

Sportsheets Beginner's Bondage Fantasy Kit Review

 Beginner's bondage fantasy - BDSM kit

So my husband and I are discovering the fun of Lite bdsm kits  and boy are they fun. Now normaly I am the one to be tied up but this time hubby wanted to be the tied one so I let him. We have tried hand cuffs on him before but lets just say he didn't like those on him ( I did though ). Well this time we received the Beginner's Bondage kit that came with 4 restraints that have a 44" connector strap each and a soft blind fold . What I like most about this kits is how soft everything is the restraints will hold you tight with out chafing you and the blind fold is so soft and covers so well you may also want to use them to sleep ( like my hubby).

If you have never tried lite bondage I highly recommend it the fact that you have no control over what is going on and if you use the blind fold not being able to see make all your other senses kick in 10x more and that could always lead to stronger and more satisfying orgasms on both sides . Wile my husband was tied and blind folded I started to tease him with my tongue I mean and being how he is the fact that he couldn't just grab me or touch me made him want it even more so when he did get what he wanted it felt even better then he thought. 

The best part about using sex toys  is that you can't really get bored or stuck in a rut there are so many options and fun ways of using them anything is possible .

Saturday, September 24, 2011

Getting back on Track

As some of you may have noticed I have not been writing as much as I was a few months ago. Well let me tell you what has been going on in my life. First I started home schooling my boys then about a month after starting that I found a new job and I work 3rd shift apart from doing this new job I am still selling Avon. so and you can see that leaves me very little time to write. That is why I am going to get more organized and make more time for my blog because I  love writing and it is my me time and my outlet .

Every person should have an outlet to help get away from all the stresses of life and writing is mine well at least one of mine ( wink wink ) ; ) ...

So from now on I plan to write at least three times a week and make more time for my blogging .

Monday, September 19, 2011

Bold & Beautiful Flip Flops Vinyl Decal review

I received this very cute flip flop decal from they offer a wide verity of decals from sports to animals. They can be applied to any smooth surface such as car windows, lockers anywhere you want to express  team spirit or other interest

What I liked about the decal is the fact that it was so easy to stick on the back of my truck and every time I look at it it will help me forget about the cold of Alaska and I can imagine I am in some place warm like Mexico. They also sent me a decal that said   I ♥ Blogging  and of course I love it all I had to do was clean my window with Windex press on the decal and I used a shopping card to smooth out the bubbles and that was it .

To get your own decal meca brush gave me the chance to give you all a coupon code The code is meca1264 

I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.

omg where did it go

where has this year gone it seems like last month was April and "boom" now we are in the middle of September what the hell happened in between.  You know this is not the first time this year that I feel like it is all going by way to fast all through out the year I have felt this way and I am not the only one so many people I have spoken to have felt the same way.  I think the world is playing a joke on all of us by speeding up then slowing down once a month or so, so we can look around and say wait what just happened .

The worst part about feeling like the year is going by way to fast is the fact that you think about what you have accomplished this year and you don't like your results. But I guess for some people it could be the other way around and looking back you say "wow" I did all that and it is only September damn time well spent.

Well maybe I shouldn't be so hard on myself I did do a few good things so far like : starting this blog , starting a full time job, starting homeschooling my boys and even increased my Avon business. I only wish I  had the time to explore Alaska more we went hiking twice this year and have only gone an hour outside of Anchorage sigh but I guess we have many  more years to see everything . The only way I am moving from Alaska Is if we move to Mexico but other then that  my butt is staying in this cold and majestic place .

Friday, September 16, 2011

Afternoon Delight Review

Afternoon Delight is an erotica for couples built up of mini erotica stories that range from the early wake up calls to dessert in bed.  This book was made for and about couples and keeping the desire hot no matter if you have been married years and start to feel like your sex life is in a rut or if you have been seeing each other for a wile and things are still as hot as ever.

This is a very good and very hot book that is great  to read with your partner. You can get a lot of hot  new Ideas from this book that can spice up any sex life. I don't tend to like the eroticas that are made up of mini erotic stories but this one surprised me . My hubby liked it because I used to hate morning sex Just like the woman in the first story Early Birds and well now it is a whole nether story.

I hope you all enjoy this book as much as I did and get as many good ideas as I did from this great book.

I received this Item in exchange for a fair review

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

TRI-O Review

Tri-O Waterproof Vibrating Couple's Cock Ring front cover

Thanks to the great people at I got a chance to try out the Tri-o waterproof Vibrating couple's cock ring . Let me tell you I was a bit apprehensive about using it because we have tried cock rings before with out success but I am not one to give up so easily. Well we got all prepped ( lubed him up) and applied the ring turned it on and he loved it .

 The ring has two push button bullet vibrators, two rings one for the shaft and the other to bring the boys into the action as well it also has two nubbed areas one from him and the other for her. With this fun little accessory you can add that little extra spice you didn't even know you were missing. An added plus we found is that the ring helped to extend our love making time But let me advise that when removing the rings to have extreme caution not to pull any of his hairs or skin its not to hard to get off just stretch then pull off.

I hope you all get a chance to try this product and enjoy it as much as we have.

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Green babies review and giveaway 9/7/11-9/28/11


Moms always want the best for their babies none of us want to bath our little angels in chemicals and other toxins . Well green babies is here to help they offer a great line of organic and even 100% vegan baby body care items that any mom can feel good about using on her child. 

 I received the smooth me detangler to try out the only problem I had was I had to ask a friend to use her daughter to test it on because I have two boys with very short hair but she didn't mind so I had her bring her daughter over with out brushing her hair that morning. So I sprayed the detangler on her wild hair combed it out and her mother just sat there in amazement I asked her why she was so amazed she said her daughter never sat that still and calm when she brushed her hair. 

Green babies also has a full line of cloths, bedding and wood toys all made with organic items. green babies is a one stop shop for the organic baby items may you need and all at great prices . I only wish they had these products when I was a kid my head still hurts thinking about all the tangles I had ouch. The kids these days are so lucky to have companies like Green babies.  

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Jamberry nail shield Review and Giveaway 9/1/11 - 9/16/11 *** Closed ***

Jamberry Nail shields are a nail sticker of sorts they are a lot stronger then the average nail stickers and are activated buy heat and pressure easy to apply you heat with a blow dryer for a few seconds apply to your nail and press and smooth out heat again ( wile on nail ) and press again repeat as many times as needed.

when I got the chance to review Nail shields by Jamberry I was so excited I went on to their web site right away to see what my favorite style was. I was taken back by all the cute and sexy styles that they had to offer it took me about an hour to decide what one was my fav. I decided to get the Black floral because it seemed so sexy yet casual  at the same time .

It took me a day or so to try the shields out after receiving them because I had to hunt down my very rarely used hair dryer from the back of my closet but it was a hunt well worth doing after I got the shields on. It only took me about 30 min to do both hands after I watched the instructional video they offer on their website . Yes it was easy but may have been easier if I had help and that is was makes them so cool for sleepovers and girls night out . The Nail shields are very affordable at $15 per sheet and that can do up to 2-3 sets of fingers or toes and don't leave a yellow tent like nail polish can do.

I hope you get a chance to try these .

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

saloon girl costume review


So we all know that time of year is coming around once again yes I am talking about Halloween. So you say this year I won't be one of those people rushing around town looking through the few choices left on the shelves. Well why not be true to your word and get it done early, fast and easy at they have so many choices for every age and size even plus sized costumes for both men and women.

 I received A very cute adult saloon girl costume that came with the skirt, top, vest and head piece. I have to say hubby loved it and so did I it made me feel so sexy all I needed was for my hubby to dress like a cowboy YEE HAWW !!.  I know a lot of people don't like to buy costumes online because they worry well what if it doesn't fit and then it may be it to late for Halloween but let me tell you they have a great size chart that gives you a nice fit. I should know being plus size it can be tricky to buy online but I have to say they sized everything just fine for measurements that they give.

I hope you get a chance to check this great site out you will have so much fun looking through all their many many costumes I know I did.

Saturday, August 27, 2011

finding time for each kid

I try to keep everything even same amount of time and money spent for both. It can be hard to find something that each would like to do but it seem like they are just happy being alone with mommy or daddy and that just makes me so happy to see.

I try to do this at least once a month I explain to the one staying at home that it is his brothers turn to go out and I find something for the other to do here at home with the other parent such as baking or something they love to do.

Have you ever found it kinda hard to find one on one time for each child? I believe it to be very important for each child to get that 1on 1 time with both mommy and daddy even it mean just taking them to the store and out to lunch just the two of you.

Love You More Review

This book is all about Jennifer Grant and her family as the go on the journey of adoption. Even though Jeni has three kids by birth she has always felt a need and desire to adopt. When her and her husband finally decide to adopt a toddler girl from Guatemala it is only the beginning of the obstacles and surprises yet to come.

Through out the book Jeni shares her worries and thoughts from everything like how her new daughter will get along with her other kids to if being taken away from her country will affect her in the long run and how her faith has helped her through it all.

I have to say this book is a good one I too have always wanted to adopt and it let me have a little insight on how it works. I also like how she doesn't only talk about the adoption but also about being a mom of four kids and learning how to deal with the racial profiling of her daughter. I can identify with that being that my kids are mixed race ( Mexican-American ). I would recommend this book to anyone who might be interested in adoption or just needs to know your not the only busy mom in the world and your not alone.

Monday, August 15, 2011

Dr.Joel Kaplan prostate massager review

 I was so excited when I received the Dr.Joel Kaplan prostate massager because it was one of the first adult toys for men that we got for my husband other then a vibrating ring . So this was first time my husband hated an sex toy item I got to review now I know not to get anything for him that he doesn't ask me to get. Even though he didn't like it with the proper way of using it we can always use it as a fun little vibrating toy because it does pack a punch for such a thin toy.
If your man is into prostate massagers this is a good one it is slightly curved at the tip and is completely waterproof it is also thin and built strong with multiple vibration settings.

this product was provided to me by in exchange for a fair and honest review.

Saturday, August 13, 2011

fun ways to tell him you want him

One of the things I love to do is do suttle things that will turn my husband on Here are a few things I do :

I'll be walking in front of him and just add a little swish to my step I can feel his eyes follow my hips from side to side. Another thing I like to do is walk in front of him and suddenly bend over most the time he will be walking so close he will bang into me in a good way. or if  I am in front of him say just talking to him I will drop something right to my feet and bend down to get it when coming back up I will pause a second in just the right spot and I always hear an " oh baby " I know I did it right .

I think almost every woman knows how to do the look where you give him those eyes that say " I want you " with out having to say a word. One way  he gets the signal is if  I bite my lip a little he knows what I am thinking. When we are holding hands I scratch his palm and he knows that means lets get it on.

I hope you like these few tips and feel free to tell me some your own .

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Playing with fire and pocket rocket reviews

Playing With Fire front coverThis month from I received two items to review. The first one being a erotica book called playing with fire edited by Alison Tyler. This book is made up of many short stories by multiple authors. Some will get you hot and wet others fell short. One thing I didn't like about some of the stories is that they ended to soon and left you wanting more so you go to the next story and it is a little dual.

Pocket Rocket Vibrator front coverThe second item I received was a Pocket rocket vibrator. It is a one speed mini vibrator that come with a studded cover that I am not to fond of because if how hard it was if it were made from a smoother plastic I would have enjoyed it more . I took the cover off and that worked for me I would recommend this product for a fun little toy you can keep in your purse or take on trips. It small and discreet but will get the job done.

I Hope you enjoy!!

This product was provided to me by good vibrations in exchange for a fair and honest review.

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

YMX Flower Clouds Sun Tee Review

The other day I received this cool shirt from YMX. What makes it so cool is the fact that it has 50+ upf  protection and is made with Madkool fabric that is soft, light and feels like your own skin you can hardly tell you are wearing it. All this makes it perfect for your outdoor sports no matter what season.

This shirt would be perfect for all the cross country skiers up here in Alaska being that you can get a sunburn in from the glare off the snow. Like I said perfect for all year round it breaths for those hot summer sports and warm enough to wear under on of their cute jackets for the winter at least here in anchorage it would be, maybe not so much in Fairbanks where it can get -60*. Another great thing about these shirts is that it is stretch and abrasion resistant and that would make it great for rock climbing.

 I am going to have so much fun with this and I am going to test it so hard see how it stands up to Alaska outdoor sports this is going to be fun.

Don't for get to like their page for a chance to win an entire YMX wardrobe.

I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.

Monday, August 1, 2011

Ila security review

Light BlueIla security makes personal and stylish alarm systems for where you need it most they have 4 kinds of alarms. the personal alarm that you can clip onto your purse or Belt loop, the personal alarm key ring to keep with you all the time just like your keys are, the pedometer& running alarm that give you the extra sense of security wiles telling you how many calories you are burning and last but not least the door wedge alarm you put behind you closed door helping stop the door from opening anymore while letting of a loud sound to scare of the intruder. All of these come in cute stylish designs that make them look more like accessories then an alarm system . 

I received the personal alarm and personal alarm key ring and I do have  to say with me working 3rd shift in not the best part of town I get a little scared just walking to my car but now I keep the key ring alarm in hand and feel a lot more security. This would also be great for hiking up here in Alaska being that if you come into contact with a bear you should make loud noises to scare the bear away and at the same time it is loud enough for other hikers to hear you and get help.
Black Swirl

I am so glad that I had the chance to work with this company they are making it safer to do our daily routines.

Sunday, July 31, 2011

Funky Monkey T-shirt printing review

I got the chance to review a very comfortable T-shirt from Funky Monkey t-shirts based in the U.K.
 I received a t-shirt with their cute Monkey logo on it the shirt is very comfortable I only wish it was a v-neck they do have them but I didn't get one oh well.  I also would have liked the logo to be a little bigger being that is is so cute. The logo didn't wash off or fade after washing it about 3 times I washed it like I do all printed shirts inside out and in cold water no shrinking or fading.

I normally don't wear t-shirts unless they accentuates my figure but I just loved the monkey and the fact that it goes with what all call my kids ( monkey) and my blog's name ( names for my kids). I must say they do a great job and from what I read on their site they have 20 years experience. I would recommend them to do any personalized t-shirts you wanted made.

I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.

Praemortis review

Praemortis  was kinda a hard book to get into its about  Dr. Veldecker, seeking a cure for his son, discovers a formula that makes patients break through the border of mortal life and discover what awaits you when you die. Dr. decides to destroy the formula he has called his son Robert Praemortis but keeps it in secret. Robert founded a corporation where its purpose is to control humanity. Apparently only a supernatural being and mysterious non-human, who calls the "Golem" can change the future.

It took me so long to finish this one ( not normal for me ) it yanks you from one part to the other and I got lost a few times and had to go back and reread a few chapters. I would not recommend this book unless you really like books that are out there.

I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com <http://booksneeze®.com/> book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 <> : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

adult movies

You know adult movies can help to add a little spice to any relationship as long as you both are into watching it. It can help to find new moves to try and what I like to do after watching one it to ask my husband what he thought about the movie and if there was anything he really liked or didn't like. I won't lie about 3 years ago I would never watch anything like that because I wasn't secure about myself and thought my husband would be imagining the woman in the movie wile he and I were having sex . Then I started to opened my mind little by little and started to accept myself the way I was. We started by getting only instructional videos it worked for us so we got other kinds that appealed to our likes and wants for our own sex life say we were working on for play we would get a movies that has a lot of that and so on.

I would say adult movies have played a good part into making my husband and I better lovers teaching us new and better things, helping us to talk about our wants and likes etc. How ever there can be some down falls to adult movies many people have become addicts to them and have formed a lust for it. Now if  your not into watching the other people in the movies you could always try to make your own do what you want and have fun with it if you don't like the way it comes out try again .

I hope you all have fun.

Thursday, July 21, 2011

Nina Heartley's Guide to Simultaneous Orgasms Review


Let me first start off by saying I love sex guides DVD, books,etc. but this was not one of my favorites. The first part of the DVD started by talking about simultaneous orgasms and how easy it is for some and hard for others. They talk about different things that get them off and what works for them but I think the part I didn't like about the movie is that it really didn't talk about how others can achieve simultaneous orgasms. To me it seems more like a porno with some sex advise but not all sex help videos are the same. Everyone has their own way of learning new sex techniques but no matter how you choose to learn just know it will always be fun.

For me the way to have simultaneous orgasms is to be in tuned to your partner and the other way around talk and find out what works for the both of you and go with it. It may take some time to get it right but don't get discouraged all the hard work will be worth it when you get the point of simultaneous orgasms. You could always try some sex toys always a great verity at eden fantasys.

Have fun getting reaching your goal !

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Toy Gasms Review

Toygasms: The Insider's Guide To Sex Toys... front coverDr. Sadie Allison's Toy Gasms is a great book I have read many instructional sex books and they all seem to say the same but this one has so many new tips and fun advise I am going to have lots of fun with this one. This book is not only for couples it has amazing tips for everyone from self pleasure to gay and lesbian tips anyone can get something from this book . Another plus for this book is that it's not only tips for toys but things you can find around your house and using furniture in ways you would never think of.

If you are looking for some new  ideas for your favorite toy this is the book you want it is very detailed and most pages have Pictures to help show you how to do it right. I would say the only bad part about the book it the fact that you may want to get more toys to try out more tips oh wait that's not such a bad thing. It is great for toy beginners starting for where and how to start to follow up.

I hope you have as much fun with this book as I did.

This product was provided to me by Good Vibrations in exchange for a fair and honest review

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

the winner of the "o" award

                                Outstanding Online Retailer:

Eden fantasys is just so awesome I can't say enough good things about them they have so many items to choose from. sometimes it can be hard to choose just one ok you all know I can never choose just one the next thing I am going to have to get is a bigger toy bag mine is filled to the top it won't zip anymore. They have this great point program that makes it so easy to earn and that means more things for your toy bag fun right.

What makes Eden fantasys stand out is the fact that they are so community oriented . They take our opinions  to heart, their staff is amazing and hard working I love working along side them as a reviewer. I hope you all enjoy as much as I do.

Sunday, July 17, 2011


Do you think is it true about certain foods helping you build your sexual desire? I am on the fence on this one  for a few reasons. 1. I have a strong sex drive so it may just be that I don't see the results like someone who has a slightly lower sex drive. 2. I am very picky about textures so I can't stand things like oysters. 3. Almost any kind of food can make you hot if you really want it to.

I have seen that foods I don't eat all that often that are believed to be aphrodisiacs do make me want it even more but I believe it could be a placebo effect. such as pomegranate , alcohol and figs are some foods I have seen a slight increase in sex drive but more common ones like chocolate, bananas, avocados etc. do nothing for me. Many food are thought of as aphrodisiacs based on their shapes and not so much on their nutritional values that help build sexual desire. So is it all in our minds or can food make us HOT?

Did you all know that the word aphrodisiac came from Aphrodite the Greek goddess of sexuality and love I never knew that until I was doing research for this post I should have put two and two together right duh.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

How do they do it

Couples that only have sex a few times a year how do they go so long with out being one with the one they love. Yea  my husband and I have gone a week at the most not counting the 40 days we had to wait after the boys were born even then we did what we could. Do you think that the passion is still in the relationship even if sex isn't ? I see sex as a way to express my love and desire for my husband to satisfy one another not only sexually but mentally as well . Yes there are other ways to show love for your significant other but what about your need and want to satisfy you sexual desire.

My big question is: Can you show passion for your significant other with out sex? My personal opinion is NO to show  how much passion you have for your significant other the only way to express that is sex. I believe that a lot of couples stop having sex is because they get board of it always the same old thing they are missing the excitement that sex can have. I always say keep it new and try new things who knows if those couples try that they may find the passion in their relationship once again.

Friday, July 8, 2011

Look what I found

I found this cute website full of lots of cool dresses . So I was looking on the web for some new cloths that I so need and I came across this one called Canada post I wasn't to sure about buying from a Canadian site being that there things cost more but I had to look so I see they have things from like $12.35 + shipping. I was hooked I had to look more well not the best thing to do I found hotter and hotter dresses that only tempted me even more.

Wild DNA Shoe Then Just to tempt me even more the had to have shoes right I saw this very cute ones I just fell in love with I had to have them. It took me so long to get through all the items they had just because I had to look at every item they had they were all so cute. Hubby had to keep an eye on me or I may have spent our entire savings lol but I was a good girl to an extent.

This site is going in my favorites!

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Date Nights

Every couple needs them and if you have kids you know what I mean. But we all know dinner and a movie can get a little dual so shake it up a bit. There are so many things you can do for date day or night for example find a great trail and go hiking , go out to dance, take a mini road trip, go to an amusement park the ideas are limitless.

I know my husband and I like doing more nature oriented things one because it is either cheap or free to do and two because it is a stress reliever to be out in the fresh air. In our area ( Alaska) we are lucky enough to have mountains and the bay with in miles of our home. But when we lived in Georgia we would go to a nice park, zoo or even just drive around a new part of town.

My point to this post is date night doesn't have to be the same old thing each time switch it up and have fun.

Friday, July 1, 2011


Communication is so important in all aspects in marriages and relationships . I say this from experience for the first 2 years of marriage my husband and I really didn't talk about the important things much and were very close to divorce we fixed things and from that point on we have talked about everything it has made our lives so much better for so many reasons we can talk about what is bothering us about each other and fix them . I believe the best part about communicating with each other is our sex lives I used to be shy about talking to my own husband about what I wanted and need to satisfy me and so was he now that we talk about everything I know just what he wants and he knows what I want .

I see so many happy couples end because they just don't talk about things. Like say your husband does something that just pisses you off but you don't want to say anything to him either because you just don't want to nag or you don't want to start an argument etc. but you know all those things build up until you can't stand it any more and BOOM !!! everything come out at once and could end very badly . It is better to have small arguments that fixes thing then one big one that ends it don't you think.

Another important part of communicating is happiness if you are not happy you need to talk about that with your partner about it . Everyone deserves to be happy and if that means talk to your partner and changing a few thing in your relationship to make you both happy go for it don't hold back or you may never be happy.

I hope these tip will help you because I know they have helped me and my husband to have a happy marriage .

Thursday, June 30, 2011

Wow what have women done to men

Today my husband helped me clean the house with out me having to say one word to him I was so thankful. It gave me a chance to finish reading the book I just posted about and to write the post and  I gave my kids their classes. The house looks great thanks to him so once the kids were in bed I told him thank you for all the help and do you know what he said to me and I quote " I did it because I wanted to get something in return" I was shocked. What have I done to my husband that he thinks that the only time I will have sex with him is if he helps me clean the house . We have sex all the time but I think that may be the problem he has become used to having it all the time ALL THE TIME  and sometimes I am just to busy or even though we may want it we just can't get the alone time. I do have to give him credit though for trying something new OH HOW I LOVE THAT MAN!!!

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

A Place Called Blessing. Review

A Place Called Blessing

This book is about a young boy named Josh and his two brothers who are put into foster care after their parents are killed in a drunk driving accident. Moving from house to house he get seporated from his brothers After a tragic fire . After ageing out of the system Josh is a angery young man sleeping where ever he can and only wanting an apartment, job and to be left alone. Instead he finds Love, family and blessing.

When I first got this book I didn't know if I would like it I am not really into reading Christian books but this one was not what I expected. It made me cry and laugh it had great twists all through out the book and the ending was so unexpected. I like this book so much because it doesn't push religon on the reader and if you didn't know this was a Christian book you would never have known.
I highly recomend this book I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I did.

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Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Foxers review


Omg  have any of you ever tried foxers they are a like ladies panties and mens boxers got busy and made babies the cutest  and most comfortable babies .When I first tried them on I didn't know if I would like the waist band ( looks like boxers waist band) but I tried them and loved it they were so comfortable the lace was soft not the itchy kind but not all come in lace they have so many others kinds to choose from.

I also received a cute lace top that matches the lace boxers but I can't really wear it my boobs don't fit and it's a shame because it is so cute too. I guess I am just going to have to go buy some in a larger size they carry  sizes XS- XXL I don't think hubby will mind to much ;).

Black Lace Cami  Black Lace Boxer Shorts - front view

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Keep it clean

Before & After Anti-bacterial Toy Cleaner front cover

I am talking about keeping your adult toys clean. I know some toys can be hard to clean or you just don't know if it is actualy clean after you clean it with soap.  Well let me tell you about what I use to clean my toys its called Before & After adult toy cleaner. It in my openion is the best toy cleaner on the market it doesn't leave grime like soaps can do and it smells nice not like alcohol like some other cleaners.

This cleaner is as easy as 1-2-3! 1. spray on... 2.wipe off... 3.Have fun!

So remeber ladies clean your toy and enjoy! That is another bonus to the cleaner is that is last a long time.

Friday, June 24, 2011

Be good to your self review

I was so happy when I woke up the other day to see a package waiting for me on the table and even more to see it was from Neoteric Cosmetics. They gave me a chance to review three products from their Montagne Jeunesse line they sent me the Passion peel off masque ( cleans, purifies & protects skin), Fudge sauna masque ( opens and deeply cleans pores. self-heating) ant the Dead sea mud pac ( ultra pore cleaning & anti stress). 

Now ladies you all read my post about doing something for ourselves right well here is a cheap way of doing it. I love peel off masques so that is what I tried first I left it on for 20 mins and then it came to my favorite part the peeling  it felt so good I wanted to do it again and again. it was so nice to sit back and relax for a wile I really needed it and thanks to Neoteric Cosmetics I got a chance to do that. Now for the Dead sea pac It smelt so good and relaxing plus it came with so much in the pac I used it for my face and had some left over my son wanted to try too so I put it on his face he loved it he thought he was a ghost. It felt tinggly and you can tell its cleaning your face it felt so good I fell asleep just sitting there with it on my face ahhhhhh.

I could get used to this at least once a week I know I am going to stock up on these.

I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using created by Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commissions 16 CFR, Part 255 Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising. Tomoson Product review & giveaway Disclosure.

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Taking time for yourself

Now this is one thing I have a hard time doing I feel guilty about going out and taking care of myself . Even small things like getting my hair cut I don't do all that often because I feel I can use that money on something for the kids and by me doing something for myself I am taking something away from my kids. I know I need to start doing things for myself  like getting some new cloths that I could really use right now but I just can't bring myself to do it . I am going to start a fund just for me put a little in at a time and once or twice a year have a me weekend new cloths, hair done, and maybe a spa day.

All moms should take some time out for themselves yes I know it can be hard but all the stress you can get rid of in that moment should cover us for a wile and let us hope for the next time right lol.

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Gripole Review

When I got these I was on my way to take the kids to play in mcd's I take them in with me and I'm looking at them thinking how can I use and test these. Next thing I know I am putting my hair up and pop my hair band breaks and it is to hot not to have my hair up so I think and I see the gripole I say hey lets try that I twist it around my hair and it stayed I was like so cool it held my hair up the rest of the day awesome so thats one thats's staying in my purse.

 I had to find more uses for them so I keep thinking and what about on my keys I loop it through my keys then through my belt loop and bam a key clip now I don't have to ruin my nails to open the key ring . These things are so cool and have so many uses just check out their video yes it is kinda a corny video but it does show a lot of diffrent uses for the gripole

I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using created by Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commissions 16 CFR, Part 255 Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising. Tomoson Product review & giveaway Disclosure.

Monday, June 20, 2011

Changing up my spring break outfits with accessories

Guest post written by Carol Sommers

Last spring break when I went to Mexico, I packed so much stuff and didn't end up wearing half of the outfits that I brought. I'm not sure why I thought that I needed so many outfit changes. I spent most of my time relaxing on the beach! Well, this year I'm going to concentrate less on changes of clothes and more on accessories to make my different outfits a little different.

I was online checking out the forecast for next week in Cancun when I came across some I checked them out and after that I decided to sign up for one of them for my internet service at my apartment.

I'm taking five sundresses with me and I'm going to take a few of my favorite pairs of wedge sandals to wear at night with them. That isn't so practical for the beach, so I'm going to just take flip-flops to wearing during the day. I also am bringing some dangly earrings to wear at night just because I think those will be fun and really dress up my dresses for the nightlife.

making a man's day

Hubby goofing off
I love making my man's day or should I say night and no I don't mean sex my husband works nights and before he goes I always give him a big hug and kiss but sometimes I take him and give him a huge long kiss and he leaves with the widest grin on his face that reaches from ear to ear. Sometimes it's that simple to make his day  a little foot massage wile you guys are watching t.v or even reminding him how sexy he is because men need to hear it too.  Now one thing I haven't done in awhile but love to do is leave a little note for him either in the car or around the house with a sexy note or pic. from me.
hubby playing his ps3
what are some things you do to make your hubby's day?

Saturday, June 18, 2011

This Father's Day

Is for my Grandpa who was always like a father to me. He was always there when I needed him when I needed  a hug he was there to give one, when I needed a laugh he was always there to cheer me up and even when I needed a to be corrected he was always there with his belt. I only wish my boys could have known him and learned from him the way I did. He was a great man a hard worker and a loving father , grandfather and great grandfather. He is missed and remembered by many rest in peace Grandpa I love you

Friday, June 17, 2011

They lied

Who ever said everything about the terrible twos was way off nether of my boys had the terrible twos when they were two but it is hitting them now that they are 3&4. It is worse in my three year old I have never seen him this way tantrums almost everyday if not from one it's from the other I do have to say it is teaching me more patient with them because getting mad just makes everything so much worse . I have tried everything and what I found to work for me is separating the boys and having them calm down and after they calm down to play quietly and by themselves for about an hour.

At what age did your kids go through the terrible twos?

what did you do to calm them down?

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

G-spot tickler

when I received the G-spot vibrator I was excited to try it out like I always am when it comes to a new goody from eden fantasys . I put the batteries in test it and damn that little thing packs a punch and to my surprise it was relatively quiet. I untwist the cord that goes from the remote to the tickler and I was happy to see how long it was (12in or so) because you don't want to be reaching the entire time to change speeds right.

So I get started and was not impressed first the tickler didn't reach my clit or even near it when it was inserted and I am the kind of woman that likes to be double stimulated who doesn't. Second it's like it lost all it's punch I couldn't feel barley anything wile inserted and it left me very unsatisfied ( hubby had to finish the job but he didn't mind ).

The package says its  Japan's # 1 best seller and it might be but it just didn't work for me maybe it is my height 5'7  it may work better for shorter women. I myself would go for a different sex toy  from eden fantasys they have so many to choose from there is something for everyone.