Tuesday, July 12, 2011

How do they do it

Couples that only have sex a few times a year how do they go so long with out being one with the one they love. Yea  my husband and I have gone a week at the most not counting the 40 days we had to wait after the boys were born even then we did what we could. Do you think that the passion is still in the relationship even if sex isn't ? I see sex as a way to express my love and desire for my husband to satisfy one another not only sexually but mentally as well . Yes there are other ways to show love for your significant other but what about your need and want to satisfy you sexual desire.

My big question is: Can you show passion for your significant other with out sex? My personal opinion is NO to show  how much passion you have for your significant other the only way to express that is sex. I believe that a lot of couples stop having sex is because they get board of it always the same old thing they are missing the excitement that sex can have. I always say keep it new and try new things who knows if those couples try that they may find the passion in their relationship once again.


  1. I think there are other ways, but sometimes it is just out of necessity. My hubby is a trucker, and works terrible hours. There have been times when he has said "My head says I want to, but my body says its impossible!" It doesn't bother me, and I know his feelings for me are no different. He does a lot of little things, that most people wouldn't even notice, that show me how he feels...and sometimes it has nothing to do with a physical love at all!

  2. But when you are together I would think that the way he shows his desire for you is by sex I am talking more about those that are together all the time and have no real sex life.

    You can't help that you are apart and I bet that helps your sex life alot for when he is there. being apart for a wile can strengthen your desire and love for one another.

  3. Actually, when we DO get to, its much better!

  4. I think it is important & if spicing it up a bit works so be it. I know we do, as much as we can with 5 kids.I think it is important & if spicing it up a bit works so be it. I know we do, as much as we can with 5 kids.